Why Not Bondage

bondageThere really is a side that brings out more of us. There are various levels of Bondage that could be that it attracts so many people in different ways. For many people, the knowledge that they are helpless, that someone else can do things with their body and they can’t prevent them, is a powerful turn-on. “I’m going to make you come and there’s nothing you can do about it.” It’s a very strong statement of trust to let someone bind you helplessly, or even non-helplessly. How erotic, to feel yourself spread open, wanton and wet, and to see your lover kneeling between your legs, ready to use you for their pleasure–or to pleasure you unendurable.

4UO8OagbGdBondage feels good. For some, tight constriction can create very intense stimulation, and lots of tight bondage can be a sensory trip, just as a whipping scene can be. Bondage can feel comforting, pleasantly confining; you don’t need to worry about anything, since what can you do? You’re all tied up, and all that’s left is to enjoy. An especially intense form of bondage is verbal bondage: putting your bottom in some position (spread-eagled, kneeling, whatever) and commanding them not to move and then tormenting them!

Some others it’s a charge to struggle, to let your body lose control. It can really intensify an orgasm when you come with every muscle straining against your bonds, trying to get your hands free to smash your lover’s face into your crotch, your body shaking. If you weren’t tied down you’d hurt yourself!

Bondage is also a very personal and some of the areas will work for some and not the others. Masks or a balls in the mouth strapped an around your head may be very uncomfortable and hard to breath. Discomfort can take something away from this happy occasion. Yes, I said happy experience. It needs to be happy for both parties or do not do it.

Now some people are saying get out of here. They will never try it. For a general stereotype of view we have all seen the scary side in the movies or stories we have read that will scare the hell out of us. That is not what all of this is about, it is about having fun.

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